Transitioning from Diapers to the Potty: How Does It Happen?

Between 18 and 24 months, most children begin to develop the ability to control their bladder and

bowels. During this period, the human body gains control over its sphincters. However, it’s not enough for a child’s nervous system to mature; psychological and social readiness is also required.

By the age of 2, one in five toddlers is able to use the toilet. Girls usually achieve this milestone earlier than boys.

If your child is experiencing changes, such as the arrival of a new sibling or starting a new school, potty training may be delayed. It’s better to allow them to adjust to the new situation first. If you’ve started training and your child shows no interest or flat-out refuses, recognize the signs they’re giving you, avoid pushing them and try again later.

How Do Parents Know Their Child Is Ready to Ditch the Diaper?
Look out for a few “signs” that indicate your child is ready to begin the process of toilet training:

• They become uncomfortable when the diaper is dirty and may express this verbally or through facial expressions.
• They remain dry for several hours during the day. The best sign is a dry diaper after nighttime sleep.
• They start having bowel movements at a more predictable time.
• They show interest in the bathroom, underwear, and try to imitate older siblings’ habits.

If You Think It’s Time:

• The transition from diapers to the potty requires support, encouragement, and patience. Don’t have unrealistic expectations. Don’t rush and don’t expect immediate results.
• Show them how you use the toilet.
• Purchase a fun potty together, allowing your child to help choose it.
• Encourage them to sit on the potty. If they refuse, do not insist. It may simply mean they’re not ready yet. Try again in a month or two.
• If they don’t like the potty but prefer the actual toilet, buy a child-friendly seat to reduce the opening’s size and a small step stool so they can climb up by themselves.
• You can also use special training underwear or pull-up training pants that go on and off easily and resemble real underwear.

Tips:

• Take it slow. Toilet training takes time.
• Praise them. The biggest “well done” you can give will be when their diaper remains dry!
• Accidents can happen throughout the training process. Never punish the child. Speak calmly, reassuring them that next time they’ll manage to use the potty.

Katerina Katsibardi, MD, PhD
Paediatrician
Doctor of Medicine, National and Kapodistrian University of Athens
www.katsibardi.gr

Note: Regular paediatric check-ups are recommended. This article provides general information, and under all circumstances, you should consult your paediatrician.